Have you looked into metaphysics like Neville Goddard or Reality Transurfing?
It's all giga maximum cope sure, but it's pretty fucking good cope if you enjoy being a pseudo intellectual faggot like me lol.
Like Zealand from transurfing would tell you what you're experiencing is a pendulum. An egregore of emotional force that swings back and forth between two contradicting states feeding off your energy. The pendulum isn't doing it to hurt you, it isn't even really alive in the traditional sense. Its a psychic parasite a phenomena.
"I want this girl so badly" vs "I can't have her, look at all these conditions of moving away, she's in a relationship, etc"
Zealand would say do what it takes to reduce the momentum of the pendulum. It isn't magic, I'm not saying you'll magically get her over night, nor can you just pretend to not give a shit. It won't work, and it'll just create tension and alter the trajectory but power the pendulum anyway.
You have to look at things realistically and remind yourself you do in fact like her, you're different than I am so what works for you might be different in just telling her how you feel. I would. I figure that's a huge bomb shell to drop and now the pendulum is her problem all the thoughts that cross her mind. Than again why would you do that to someone you're in love with? But again. Pendulums don't care. The universe doesn't care. This is human morality. The pendulum is just a little shop of horrors FEED ME
So what you could do is try and distract yourself with bumble or something. Find girls LIKE HER as I'm sure she has characteristics easy enough to spot in the wild.
Or just calm yourself and focus on other things meanwhile to at least cause the pendulum to reach an equilibrium.
They will. I had a girl who wanted to spend time with me recently that I grew up with. Shw was only here for a bit and now she has been gone for a week. There was a resurgance of all the fantasies typical of these kinds of real life moments. For me especially because they were ideas with her I long since let go of. Yet in person there I was again imagining what could be. It won't be though. I know that logically. You can spend all the time in the world thinking about someone you wish was something more in your life, but you only serve to hurt yourself. They are not. They are living without you. You do not care about the way anyone else is loving other than this one person. Categorize them the same way you do anyone else. The harah reality is that is as much as they will likely ever be towards you. Same in my situation. It never was any of the castle I had built in n the sky. That was a mere illusion. Do anything you can to quit seeing this mirage you have fabricated. You'll be far better off in the long run.
Have you looked into metaphysics like Neville Goddard or Reality Transurfing?
It's all giga maximum cope sure, but it's pretty fucking good cope if you enjoy being a pseudo intellectual faggot like me lol.
Like Zealand from transurfing would tell you what you're experiencing is a pendulum. An egregore of emotional force that swings back and forth between two contradicting states feeding off your energy. The pendulum isn't doing it to hurt you, it isn't even really alive in the traditional sense. Its a psychic parasite a phenomena.
"I want this girl so badly" vs "I can't have her, look at all these conditions of moving away, she's in a relationship, etc"
Zealand would say do what it takes to reduce the momentum of the pendulum. It isn't magic, I'm not saying you'll magically get her over night, nor can you just pretend to not give a shit. It won't work, and it'll just create tension and alter the trajectory but power the pendulum anyway.
You have to look at things realistically and remind yourself you do in fact like her, you're different than I am so what works for you might be different in just telling her how you feel. I would. I figure that's a huge bomb shell to drop and now the pendulum is her problem all the thoughts that cross her mind. Than again why would you do that to someone you're in love with? But again. Pendulums don't care. The universe doesn't care. This is human morality. The pendulum is just a little shop of horrors FEED ME
So what you could do is try and distract yourself with bumble or something. Find girls LIKE HER as I'm sure she has characteristics easy enough to spot in the wild.
Or just calm yourself and focus on other things meanwhile to at least cause the pendulum to reach an equilibrium.
They will. I had a girl who wanted to spend time with me recently that I grew up with. Shw was only here for a bit and now she has been gone for a week. There was a resurgance of all the fantasies typical of these kinds of real life moments. For me especially because they were ideas with her I long since let go of. Yet in person there I was again imagining what could be. It won't be though. I know that logically. You can spend all the time in the world thinking about someone you wish was something more in your life, but you only serve to hurt yourself. They are not. They are living without you. You do not care about the way anyone else is loving other than this one person. Categorize them the same way you do anyone else. The harah reality is that is as much as they will likely ever be towards you. Same in my situation. It never was any of the castle I had built in n the sky. That was a mere illusion. Do anything you can to quit seeing this mirage you have fabricated. You'll be far better off in the long run.
Sorry for the typos. Phoneshitter mashing the screen too fast.
If she's moving away i'd be popping the Champaign